Would you rather a huge up in a relationship before an equally as huge crash back to ground or a relationship that starts slowly and changes your persona over such a long time that you don’t realise until you look back and you’re not the person you were before?

Would you rather a bang or a whimper?

  1. akapatrick reblogged this from explodinganyway and added:
    Honestly, for the first question, I’ve had both. And I prefer the second, because in most cases, it changes you for the...
  2. king-wasabi said: huge up and then huge down is easier to recover from. things that change you over time likely become habits/a part of you and that gets a lot harder to recover from/get over/change.
  3. courtanna said: Whisper. It’s easier to roll with the tides of change that way.
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